Comments:

robt. - 2004-07-20 18:30:57
It sounds like you and JAB are at a crises point. At least you are. If you don't act now, you may regret if forever. He say's "it�s us and not him." Damn straight. It takes two to tangle. Going to a councilor will help you both to see that it is us and not me or him. So his point supports going to a councilor. "Like most things I have to find the person." Dah, and why should that change 'before' you go to a councilor? You are going so that you can correct issues like that. So, bite the bullet one last time and just do it. Or go yourself if he won't go, you sound miserable. But then again, maybe you really do like where you are at. Maybe you like all the bitching and whining online. Maybe you yourself are afraid to go. What will it be?
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mea - 2004-07-21 12:46:19
i understand how you are feeling about wanting to have some fair validation. it is fearful work to validate someone else, especially with the generous and open idea to really hear that other person. this makes people vulnerable. i echo robt, really do something about seeing a counselor because true communication is learned and it will strengthen your relationship..i think, too, it will help your stress level go down..:D // i am wishing much peace your way.
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